Rafael Anthony Rios Jr. was born on August 20, 1993, in Newark, New Jersey. He spent much of his childhood and young adulthood in Attleboro, Massachusetts, where he built the foundation of the person he would become.After earning his GED and working in the food industry, Rafael felt called to serve a greater purpose and enlisted in the United States Army as an Infantryman in 2019.
His first duty station was Fort Carson, Colorado, where two years later he met the love of his life, Barbara. Together they built a life filled with love, later marrying and creating a warm and supportive home for his stepson, Vincent.In 2023, Rafael relocated to Fort Riley, Kansas, as part of a Permanent Change of Station. In early 2024, he deployed to Kuwait, where he served his country with courage and dedication. Upon his return and reunion with his family, Rafael’s commitment, integrity, and leadership qualities were recognized by his superiors. He was promoted to Corporal and then to Sergeant earning the respect of those who served alongside him.
After years of devoted military service, Rafael began considering new paths in life while continuing his search for purpose and meaning. Rafael passed away on the night of January 16–17, 2026, leaving behind his beloved wife, son, sister Sabrina and brother Emmanuel and other family members, friends, and fellow service members in profound disbelief and sorrow. Rafael will be remembered for his strong character, infectious laugh, comforting hugs, and the personal code of honor by which he lived every day. His presence and impact will forever remain in the hearts of those who knew and loved him.
Visitation will be held on Tuesday, February 17, 2026, from 5:30 to 7:30 p.m. at Irvin Parkview Funeral Home, Manhattan, Kansas